Cuffin’ season is almost here. For those who are unaware of what it is, it’s a time when people cuddle up during the winter months from October through March. These relationships are ideal for those who want something short term and not looking for anything serious, yet are down to have some fun during holidays. However, there are some rules you need to follow if you want this upcoming cuffin’ season to go smoothly. Here are 4 rules you need to follow so you can be ready for a sexy cuffin’ season:
Make sure Your Intentions Are Clear:
Though cuffin’ season can be a fun time between two people, it’s very possible for someone to get hurt if they didn’t know what they were getting themselves into. Cuffin’ season is supposed to be temporary love sesh between you and someone else. So if you do decide to go forward with this, tell your person exactly that you want something short term. Otherwise, you may hurt someone who may see you as somebody they can have a long term relationship with.
Stay Away From Your Exes:
It may be tempting to reconnect with someone from your past but cuffin’ season is all about cuddling up with someone new. Leave the past where it belongs, in the past.
This is an obvious one. Let’s be real. Cuffin’ season can get a bit hot and heavy. Be sure to use protection. Have your birth control and condoms on stand by. That way you don’t have to worry about STDs or unplanned pregnancies during these next few months.
Don’t Rush Things:
Remember that even though you like the person you are spending time with, you want to enjoy being in the moment. Now, it’s very possible you may see your cuffing buddy as someone you can be with past the spring. If you do grow some emotional attachment to your person, take things slow. Enjoy every moment you have with your person like watching movies, eating good food, and enjoy having long talks. Then when cuffin’ season is over, see how you feel. Want to take things to the next level? Talk to your person and see what happens. Who knows? Your new person my be with you for the long haul.
Hopefully these few vital rules will get you ready for cuffin’ season. Remember, have fun and be in the moment. The relationship may not last long but at least you will have a memorable winter season.